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8 Tips For Keeping Your Cool When Customers Get Hot

8 Tips For Keeping Your Cool When Customers Get Hot

Hey there, customer service champs! Dealing with angry customers can be a real bummer, but fear not! With these 8 tips, you’ll be able to keep your cool and make sure your customers leave happy.

Simple Tips For Dealing With Nasty Customers
8 Tips For Keeping Your Cool When Customers Get Hot

My definition of assertion is simple: “Say what you mean, mean what you say, and don’t be mean when you say it.” Let this rule guide your conversations with all customers and you will always be confident, cool, and in control AND you’ll always be professional.

You’ll be amazed at how much more clearly you can think and how much control and confidence you experience when you consciously slow down your rate of speech. Speak slowly and methodically when your emotional triggers are launched and you’ll maintain poise during difficult conversations.

Responding immediately to difficult or tactical customers could result in you saying something you’ll later regret. Before you respond, take a deep breath, wait at least 2 seconds, and think about the best response and the best approach.

When you sense that your buttons have been pushed, take a break. You can tell the customer you need to put him on hold while you review a file, or whatever excuse sounds good at the time. The point is to get away from the customer for a few seconds so you can re-group.

I’m going to sound like Dr. Phil on this one, but I’m quite serious. Instead of saying to yourself, “I don’t get paid enough to put up with this ____.” Say something more positive like “This guy really needs my help.” Thinking more positively helps you respond more positively and professionally. Negative thoughts lead to negative words, and it spirals into a very negative situation.

Often, a subtle suggestion of your “power” is far more effective than the outright use of your power. As a customer service professional, you may have the power to terminate a phone call. You could say to your customer: “If you don’t stop yelling, I will terminate this call.” But, believe it or not, you are far more “powerful” if you say, “I want to help you, but when you yell and cut me off, you make it difficult for me to work with you.” The latter statement demonstrates your power and your message most definitely gets across. The former statement uses up all of your ammunition and won’t usually diffuse an irate customer.

Don’t be that person who overpromises and underdelivers. Be honest about what you can and can’t do. It’s better to underpromise and overdeliver.

Once the dust has settled, make sure to follow up and ensure the customer is happy. Show them you care about their experience and that you’re committed to providing top-notch customer service.


So there you have it, folks! With these 8 tips, you’ll be able to handle any customer with ease. Remember to take a deep breath, listen and empathize, use positive language, take a break if needed, focus on the issue, apologize sincerely, don’t make false promises, and follow up to make sure everything’s A-OK. Keep on smiling, and happy customer service-ing!

These incredibly simple tips will position you to keep your cool when customers get hot!

8 Tips For Keeping Your Cool When Customers Get Hot

8 Tips For Keeping Your Cool When Customers Get Hot

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